Just wanted to share, y’all….I get messages from straight men and women all the time about how they like my act, but “aren’t queer or anything.” OH, lawd. My sweetest lil breeder men and women. You don’t have to BE anything other than exactly who you are to love some Ho. I just find that she resonates most deeply with people who have had to fight against some adversity in claiming who they are, and in this day and age that is predominantly the fight of our gay brothers and sisters–and women (even though we may not even realize it). But shame isn’t something that just gays and women feel…it’s just something they choose and are ALLOWED to tackle to be more fully themselves!
I didn’t always identify as a Ho–there’s a wHOle other side of my personality that some of y’all know over at WendyJoSmith.com;-) I’m still getting to know her too! But this HO thing, she is apart of me, but for awhile, it was a tuff pill to swallow. I didn’t want to claim this part of myself that is DIRTY, NASTY, LOUD, CRAZY, OVER SEXUALIZED, but once I did–I was on a path to freedom. Most women still are uncomfortable with my act, but there are more and more that come to the fold and are willing to laugh at how stupid it is that we still feel the need to choose: Virgin or Whore, when we are in fact both. WE are a million shades of grey, and I’ve found its our “dark” parts that balance the light–its called our shadow. Y’all know I love me some Oprah! Check out this article on Oprah.com, by Debbie Ford my favorite part: